LGBTQ+ Travel Myths...Busted!

Before We Bust Some Myths…

The photo above was taken in Kazakhstan, probably not the first place that comes to mind for LGBTQ+ travel. But guess what? It was one of the friendliest and most beautiful places we’ve ever visited. If we had listened to the fear-mongering myths, we would’ve missed out on an experience full of warmth, hospitality, and unexpected connections.

We get it, the LGBTQ+ community is in a weird era where travel planning often comes with an extra layer of “But is this place actually safe for me?” And while it’s important to stay informed, should we let those doubts limit us?

From the assumption that only certain destinations are safe to the belief that solo queer travel is just too risky, these myths keep us from experiencing the world in all its fabulous, rainbow-filled glory.

But here’s the truth: The world is queerer (and more welcoming) than you think.

This guide is here to challenge outdated narratives, push back against unnecessary fear, and help you travel smarter, not smaller. Let’s bust some myths and get you booking that next adventure with confidence.

Myth #1: "LGBTQ+ Travelers Should Only Visit 'Safe' Countries"

Reality Check: While safety is a valid concern, painting entire countries as "unsafe" often ignores nuance. Many destinations have thriving underground LGBTQ+ scenes, local allies, and evolving attitudes. Researching specific cities, neighborhoods, and local LGBTQ+ groups can reveal hidden spaces where queer travelers are welcomed with open arms.

Example: While Belgrade's LGBTQ+ nightlife scene isn't completely out in the open, we found it, and it is thriving (albeit not the biggest). Or the underground drag scene in Kuala Lumpur? Sometimes, the most rewarding experiences are found where you least expect them.

Musk Machine in Belgrade, wonderfully gay, but not made for those that are epileptic

Myth #2: "If a Country Has Anti-LGBTQ+ Laws, You Should Avoid It Entirely"

Reality Check: There’s a difference between government policies and how everyday people treat LGBTQ+ travelers. Many countries with restrictive laws still have vibrant, welcoming queer communities. Engaging with them (safely) can foster cross-cultural understanding and support local activists. On top of it, those locals need our support!

Example: LGBTQ+ travelers have reported feeling incredibly welcomed in Morocco, Sri Lanka, Malaysia, and Indonesia despite conservative laws. The key? Discretion, local insights, and respect for cultural nuances.

Let's break down the complex country of Malaysia:

Myth #3: "Pride Events Only Happen in Major Cities"

Reality Check: Pride celebrations are spreading beyond the usual hotspots. Many smaller towns and unexpected locations now host incredible events, often with a stronger sense of community than the massive parades in major capitals.

Example: Did you know that Kaohsiung, Taiwan has a Pride festival? Or how about the baby town of Chichester, United Kingdom. Sometimes, the best Prides are where you’d least expect them.

One of the most memorable prides was Potsdam Pride in Germany, where everyone took on the parade by bike!

Myth #4: "There’s No LGBTQ+ Nightlife in Conservative Countries"

Reality Check: Just because a country isn’t known for its queer nightlife doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. LGBTQ+ spaces in more conservative places may be underground, private, or discreet, but they can be some of the most vibrant and welcoming spots.

Example: Ask any queer traveler in Dubai or Yerevan, and they’ll tell you about the hidden clubs, house parties, and secret meeting spots where the LGBTQ+ community thrives.

Trying to find the gay nightlife in Yerevan, Armenia. It took a few days and a lot of inquiries on Grindr, but we did.

Myth #5: "Solo LGBTQ+ Travel Is Dangerous"

Reality Check: Queer solo travelers are thriving. While certain precautions are necessary (as with any solo traveler), going it alone can be incredibly empowering. With the right planning, LGBTQ+ solo travel can be safe, exhilarating, and life-changing.

Example: Many LGBTQ+ travelers have found unexpected friendships and chosen families while exploring solo. Of course, the apps come in handy during moments like these like Misterb&B, Grindr, Michael & Matt's LGBTQ+ Travel Facebook Community, and Meetup help connect travelers with locals and fellow adventurers.

While I do less of it now, solo traveling has been incredibly liberating and the people I've met along the way have changed my life. (Photo taken circa 2013)

Myth #6: "You Have to Stay in LGBTQ+-Specific Hotels for a Safe Experience"

Reality Check: While queer-friendly accommodations like Misterb&B or Axel Hotels are fantastic options, many mainstream hotels and Airbnbs are incredibly welcoming too. Checking reviews, messaging hosts, and looking for LGBTQ+ travel certifications can ensure a comfortable stay.

Example: Some of the best experiences come from unexpected places...like a river-side bungalow we booked on a whim in Laos or a boutique eco-lodge in Costa Rica that goes out of its way to welcome LGBTQ+ guests.

Final Thought: Travel on YOUR Terms ✈️🏳️‍🌈

Don’t let myths hold you back. LGBTQ+ travelers have more options than ever, and while it’s important to stay informed, it’s equally important to challenge outdated narratives. The world is vast, diverse, and often more welcoming than we assume.

So go forth, explore, and rewrite the queer travel playbook.